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R.S.V.P.: Menus for Entertaining from People Who Really Know How Hardcover – November 7, 2000
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New York hostess extraordinaire and inveterate guest of some of the world's most accomplished, Nan Kempner offers a tantalizing glimpse into the homes -- and entertaining philosophies -- of more than two dozen of her favorite hosts and hostesses. With twenty complete menus, R.S.V.P. divulges tried-and-true strategies for a large range of events, from a dockside breakfast to a gala sit-down dinner. Here is a casual city luncheon hosted by Crown Princess Pavlos of Greece; cocktails on the Grand Canal in Venice with Larry Lovett; Anne Bass's fall-inspired country menu; the raucous Texas-sized cookout served by Lynn Wyatt; and a full-scale boar hunt on the Loire Valley estate of Count Hubert and Countess Isabelle d'Ornano.
For each event, Nan recollects the mood at the table and the individual elements that made each gathering so exceptional. She has also convinced her friends to share their most closely guarded recipes, most of them simple to replicate and all certain to please even the most discerning partygoer. R.S.V.P. also gives an enticing tour of some of the world's most brilliant houses, with an insider's view of Oscar and Annette de la Renta's Santo Domingo villa; Ross Bleckner's art-filled New York City loft; and designer Valentino's sumptuously appointed yacht. Stunning color photographs showcase each house and vividly re-create these events.
- Print length224 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherClarkson Potter
- Publication dateNovember 7, 2000
- Dimensions8.76 x 0.75 x 11.26 inches
- ISBN-100609604309
- ISBN-13978-0609604304
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Divided into sections that feature lunches, informal dinners, buffets, and galas, the book offers, for example, the Corn and Feta Soufflé of Princess Marie Chantal of Greece, served at a light lunch, and the savory Mushroom Tart of vineyard patrons Carole and François Rochas, prepared for a "perfect" fall repast. Desserts aren't neglected and include the likes of Orange Floating Island and Fig Sorbet with "Queen of Sheba" Chocolate Cookies. A final section, "Me and More Friends," brings Kempner herself onstage with her recipe for beignet-like Pet de Nonnes, as well as offering formulas for Bill Blass's Sour Cream Soufflé and Nancy Reagan's Currant Cookies, among others. With 300 color photos, the large-format book reveals a world that readers can enjoy visiting, and includes dishes for their own R.S.V.P. occasions. --Arthur Boehm
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New York hostess extraordinaire and inveterate guest of some of the world's most accomplished, Nan Kempner offers a tantalizing glimpse into the homes -- and entertaining philosophies -- of more than two dozen of her favorite hosts and hostesses. With twenty complete menus, R.S.V.P. divulges tried-and-true strategies for a large range of events, from a dockside breakfast to a gala sit-down dinner. Here is a casual city luncheon hosted by Crown Princess Pavlos of Greece; cocktails on the Grand Canal in Venice with Larry Lovett; Anne Bass's fall-inspired country menu; the raucous Texas-sized cookout served by Lynn Wyatt; and a full-scale boar hunt on the Loire Valley estate of Count Hubert a
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With that experience began a lifelong mania for collecting cookbooks as well as recipes from magazines and those of my mother's and grandmother's cooks. As a result of reading, watching, and helping our family cook—in other words by osmosis—I picked up a little knowledge and developed a love for haute cuisine.
I grew up in an era when young women took cooking classes before they married. So, fresh from college and before my marriage to Tommy Kempner, off I went. As I had a foundation, cooking school was really a way to fine-tune my skills, and I concentrated on learning to make the special things that I had drooled over in books. To this day, I still think my soufflés and pasta carbonara are as good as anyone's.
When Tommy and I moved to London for a year, right after we were married, I put my culinary skills to the test. Food was still rationed in 1952, and I realized that quality ingredients make a huge difference when you cook. In those days, I charmed a lot of butchers and greengrocers to get the extra lamb chop or a few more eggs. Rationing, however, did not prevent me from cooking up a storm, and oddly enough it's how I developed my lifelong love of entertaining. As is my nature, I made fast friends with a lot of people and soon I was inviting them to share in the weekly food packages we received from our parents, which were filled with delicacies like roast beef and tinned hams—things Londoners hadn't seen in years.
We lived in an eccentric little town house where the ill-equipped kitchen was in the basement and the dining room was on the first floor. I had to use a dumbwaiter to bring the food up and then rush to get it to the table before it became cold. I had my share of disasters due to a poor oven and a limited supply of pots and pans.
When we moved back to New York, and as a result of having three children in rapid succession, Sylvina Barrasso came into my life to be my cook and to my great good fortune has been with me—with one short intermission—for almost forty years.
Through the years, we've really experimented together. Sylvina is a natural and she can interpret any dish I've eaten in a restaurant or at a friend's house. Our menu planning has no formula; instead, we cook what we think our guests want to eat, which, of course, is what I want to eat at that particular moment. Along the way, we've adapted a wealth of recipes that I've collected and others we've invented ourselves.
For years, I've wanted to write a cookbook and share some of these recipes. When my fantasy came true, I realized that this book should include more than just my menus. I wanted to share with readers where I find my own inspiration to create new recipes and keep my food imaginative.
As it happens, the biggest influence comes from the memorable meals I've had all over the world in some of the most beautiful houses belonging to my friends—lucky me. This book, however, is more than just a cookbook. In many ways, it's a memoir—a reflection of a part of my life that has given me extra pleasure not only because of the meals I've eaten with my friends, but also because of the way they entertain. My own style of entertaining has evolved from my happy experiences with the people I've profiled.
For the past four decades, in New York, I've given more dinner parties than I could possibly count. As a result, I'm often asked to impart my tips or secrets to great entertaining. I'm always stumped to give some brilliant quote. As for my menus, I have no formula for entertaining. Throwing a dinner or lunch party is a spontaneous happening that stems from a love of people and enjoyment of friends. For me, entertaining is part of the "living well is the best revenge" theory of life and gives me an opportunity to share what I do best. Offering good food and decorating with lovely flowers and pretty linens are ways of giving my friends happiness.
As a guest, what I notice as much as the food is presentation. Everything from the tablecloths to the way the food looks is as important as how the meal tastes. The last ingredient of successful entertaining and the one I prize above all others is the warmth of the host and the ambience he or she creates. You can have the best meal in the world, but without that personal touch, you may as well have gone to a four-star restaurant—not a dreary alternative, I know, but nothing in my view can compete with a well-executed dinner party at home.
Every menu illustrated in this book is highly personal and unpredictable. Nothing has been prefabricated for the camera, although in some instances I asked my host to re-create a favorite dish I'd had before. Best of all, the photographs vividly capture the way my friends live, and though I was on a professional mission, my visits were exactly like any other weekend, evening, or afternoon I've spent with them.
All these people have in common a generosity of spirit and friendship. For all of them, mealtime is happy time; the dining table is the place where friends meet to exchange ideas and relax. Though the majority of my friends have a cook and domestic help of some variety, they do not delegate the planning of their parties to staff. These hosts devote attention to every aspect of the event, from the menu to table settings to flowers to the ambience of the house.
Best of all, the food these people serve is food that's meant to be enjoyed and not just looked at. It's cooks' food as opposed to chefs' food. For me, that means straightforward, classically based cuisine. It's hearty; it's comforting and never fancy. Every recipe in this book can be executed by anyone.
This book offers a rare glimpse into the world I've been so fortunate to inhabit. In some instances, asking the hosts to participate in the book was my own sneaky way of getting them to part with recipes they've never given away. And so from the kitchens of my generous and skilled friends, I would like to share some of the better eating with you.
Seared Pork Loin with Herb Lime Butter
The herb lime butter melted into the sliced pork loin gives it a delicious flavor that balances the sweetness of the yams.
Serves 4 to 8
¼ cup fresh lime juice
2 tablespoons grated lime zest
1 teaspoon peeled and minced fresh ginger
3 tablespoons finely chopped fresh cilantro leaves
13 cup extra-virgin olive oil
2½ to 3 pounds boneless pork loin
2 tablespoons olive oil
Lime slices, for garnish
Chopped fresh cilantro leaves, for garnish
Herb Lime Butter
12 cup (1 stick) unsalted butter, softened
2 teaspoons grated lime zest
1 teaspoon fresh lime juice
2 tablespoons roughly chopped fresh cilantro leaves
1 tablespoon roughly chopped fresh flat-leaf parsley
½ teaspoon kosher salt
¼ teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
In a glass dish that is just large enough to hold the pork, combine the lime juice, lime zest, ginger, cilantro, and olive oil. Trim all the fat from the pork, removing as much of the top layer in one piece as possible (if the fat has already been trimmed, ask your butcher for extra pork fat). Set the fat aside in the refrigerator. Next, use a sharp knife to remove any silver skin (the shiny, silver sheath that coats part of the pork). Place the pork in the marinade, turning to coat, and refrigerate for at least 1 hour, turning once or twice. Meanwhile make the herb lime butter.
Place the softened butter in the container of a food processor and pulse several times until light and fluffy. Add the lime zest, lime juice, cilantro, parsley, salt, and pepper. Process until it begins to turn bright green and the herb leaves are visible. Using a plastic spatula, scrape the butter mixture onto a piece of wax paper and shape into a 1-inch log. Roll tightly in the wax paper and refrigerate.
Remove the pork from the refrigerator and let stand in the marinade at room temperature for 1 hour before cooking.
Preheat the oven to 325°F.
Remove the pork from the marinade and pat dry with paper towels. Tie the pork loin with cooking string every inch to hold its shape. Next, heat 2 tablespoons of oil in a cast-iron pan over high heat, until very hot but not smoking. Sear the pork until brown on all sides. Remove the pan from the heat and place the reserved pork fat on the top side of the pork, covering as much of the pork as possible. Place the pan in the middle of the oven and roast for 45 minutes, or until the pork's internal temperature reads 160°F. when measured with a meat thermometer.
Reduce the oven temperature to 250°F.
Remove the pork from the oven, tent loosely in aluminum foil, and let rest for 15 to 20 minutes.
Slice the pork thin and arrange on a sheet pan, overlapping the slices and dotting between with thin slices of the lime butter. Heat the pork in the oven for 5 minutes, just until warmed through. Use a spatula to transfer the pork to a platter garnished with lime slices and cilantro for serving.
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Product details
- Publisher : Clarkson Potter; 1st edition (November 7, 2000)
- Language : English
- Hardcover : 224 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0609604309
- ISBN-13 : 978-0609604304
- Item Weight : 2.6 pounds
- Dimensions : 8.76 x 0.75 x 11.26 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #723,408 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #2,857 in Entertaining & Holiday Cooking
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- Reviewed in the United States on February 13, 2024Fascinating insider peak into the world of Haute société home entertaining during an era when these pursuits were highly valued.
- Reviewed in the United States on December 6, 2012I would recommend this to people to use for entertaining even if the don't remember who Nan Kempner was. Perfection
- Reviewed in the United States on December 29, 2013This is a fun book and the recipes are terrific. It has been a go to book for inspiration and information.
- Reviewed in the United States on January 19, 2005I really liked this book and enjoyed very much reading it. The recipes are quiet easy to prepare and taste very good. I find some of the other reviews very inappropriate and not quiet fair. So she said something in an interview about fat people - maybe it was quoted out of context - whatever, it has nothing to do with the book she wrote. This book is about people from the "society" who entertain and that's what you get. The photos are excellent and I like the way Nan describes her friends and the places they live in. Why not just enjoy it and image how it would be to live in beautiful houses and give such lovely luncheons and parties...
- Reviewed in the United States on March 25, 2013I'm sorry I ordered the book, it is very outdated. I need to stay off the Internet late at night when I am tired, I do foolish things.
- Reviewed in the United States on May 17, 2005Ya gotta love the pictures, try some of the recipes, and laugh a bunch. Its a nice cook book if you are into cookbooks, but mostly get it for the fun of it.
- Reviewed in the United States on May 31, 2001Nan; your book is excellent !!! I really enjoy it. Quentin Bacon photographs are also really great !!!! This is the best book on cooking I've ever seen.
- Reviewed in the United States on September 4, 2017Enjoyed this book.
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FrançoisReviewed in France on October 31, 2019
5.0 out of 5 stars Le must de l art de vivre
Des menus pour des dîners de rêve
- AB HeynsReviewed in the United Kingdom on September 3, 2013
5.0 out of 5 stars R.S.V.P: Menus for Entertaining from People Who Really Know How
I loved this book by the late Nan Kempner because it allowed a glimpse into how people who entertain for a living really do it. Apart from menus for a range of meals - for ladies who lunch to weekend gatherings to picnics on a gondola (yes really) - I appreciated the photos of table settings in particular. I guess this may not be a book that would blow professional chefs out of the water, but it is nonetheless informative, quite a pleasurable read as well as a good reference to have.
- SFDReviewed in the United Kingdom on April 23, 2017
5.0 out of 5 stars I FOUND THIS TO BE AN EXCELLENT BOOK
I found this to be an excellent book for what I wanted it for and would be also of interest to people who wanted to know about American society.